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10 Lessons From "Red Paper Clip Guy"

Have you ever felt like you couldn't do something that you really wanted to do because you lacked the resources? If so, you are about to learn 10 vital lessons about resourcefulness form "Red paper clip Guy."

But first, let's talk about how he got this odd nickname: This is a guy who had a red paper clip, which he traded for a fish shaped pen on July 14 2005.

He then traded the pen for a hand sculpted doorknob, which he traded for a fully fueled Coleman camp stove. Then on September 24th 2005, he traded the stove for a Honda generator, which he traded for an "instant party" (commitment to fill an empty keg).

He then traded the "instant party" to a comedian in exchange for a snowmobile. He then traded the snowmobile for a two person trip to British Columbia, and he traded the trip for a cube van.

On February 22nd 2006, he traded the cube van for a recording contract in Tokyo. He traded the recording contract to Jody Gnant for a year's rent in Arizona, which he traded for an afternoon with Alice Cooper which he traded for a KISS motorized snowglobe.

He then traded this to Corbin Bernsen for a role in Donna on Demand, and he traded that role for a two-story farmhouse in Kilpling Saskatchewan.

All of this was done in less than two years...

Ten Things You Can Learn From This Story

1. Don't Despise Small Beginnings

No matter how small and insignificant something may seem at first, never underestimate the fact that it could grow into something much greater...and really fast. Think about how this guy started out with one red paperclip and ended up with the house...simply by a series of well crafted trades.

Most likely, you have a lot more resources than a simple paper clip to get started doing what you want to do.

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2. Persistence Pays 

While reading the list of exchanges which led to the house, it might be easy to assume that this was pretty simple. But remember that this is a process which took nearly 3 years and sent "the red paper clip guy" to many different locations. He probably also heard the word "no thanks" hundreds of times...but he didn't give up until he met his objective.

3. You Don't Need Money to Acquire Stuff

No matter what you want in life or how expensive it seems, this story proves that you don't always have to have money to get what you want. Think about it, exchanging materials or services was the way in which the American economy (one of the largest in the world) was established. In fact, it wasn't until a few hundred years ago that the US started using paper money.

So remember this, and the story of the red paper clip guy...and that you don't always need money to get what you want.

4. Creativity Pays

Look at the list of exchanges this man made to acquire this two-story summer home, and you'll realize what a significant role creativity had to have played. Creativity is probably your most valuable asset when it comes to getting anything you want: more money, the perfect partner, a better body, the better career etc.

5. Ask and You Shall Receive

Again, look at the list of exchanges and you'll realize that some of them the red paperclip guy got a MUCH better deal than the other person. But these are all deals that he would not have gotten if he had thought: "Ah, that's not an even trade...they'll never go for that."

If there's something that you want, you'll never get it if you don't ask for it. But if you just get into the habit of asking for what you want, you might be amazed at how easily people say yes.

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6. Value is Relative

This is probably one of the most vital lessons you can learn about success: value is relative. After all, who decided that a red paper clip was worth a pen...or that a KISS snowglobe was worth a part in a TV show?

7. Resourcefulness is More Important Than Resources

Again, considering the series of exchanges which led up to the acquiring of the house, obviously the red paperclip guy was a resourceful person. It was this resourcefulness that made up for a tremendous lack of material resources.

8. One Man's Trash is Another Man's Treasure

Again, value is relative. If you have something that you don't want...don't just assume that no one else wants it either. What you have that you don't value could end up being the tool which you can use to get you what you really want...without really giving anything up.

9. It Doesn't Take 30 Years to Own a House

Most people try to realize the dream of homeownership by taking out a 30 year mortgage, this guy did it in less than three years. This should also prove that when time is lacking, creativity can do more than make up for it.

10. You Can Make Your Own Luck

Is this guy just "lucky" or is this the result of strategic persistence and creativity? Surely, luck can cause isolated incidents to occur, but not a strategic series of trades which led from a dinky red paper clip to a house in less than three years. If this man "made his own luck" this way, certainly you can too if you put these ten lessons to work for you and do the same.

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