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How to be Hot By Saturday

What day is it today? No matter what day it is, I bet I can tell you how to be smoking hot by Saturday. Sound impossible? If you think it does...

I invite you to learn exactly what it takes to become irresistibly attractive to the opposite sex and attract your dream relationship...

 ...and this is something you can get started on today and see results as early as this weekend.

First, A Shift in Thinking

Have you bought into the myths that attracting the opposite sex requires you to be tall, lean, muscular and shapely? Do you think that you have to have a lot of money in the bank or drive a hot car?

If so, you might be really frustrated about your current physical or financial condition.

But guess what?

These are NOT the things that make someone hot to the opposite sex. Sure, they do help a lot, but if you don't have what it really takes, money and looks can't save you. So what does it take to be smoking hot by this weekend?

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You have to start with the one thing that both men and women find irresistibly attractive: confident sexual energy. Can you remember the last time that you saw a girl or a guy who was with a great looking partner, but they themselves were only average looking?

If so, you might have been wondering:

"What in the world do they SEE in that person?" And the answer is even more confusing: most of the time THEY don't even know what they see. That's because sexual energy is something which is literally FELT radiating from a person.

It's that thing that causes you to think that someone has a "great vibe" about them.

Okay, so by now you're probably wondering how you can get a hold of this amazing sexual energy and attract the man or women right?

Well, the answer is that you already have it! It's just a matter of learning how to use it.

Harnessing Your Sexual Energy

If you think we're about to get into some mystical chakra meditations, think again. Sexual energy is something which all of us are already in touch with, the problem is that we think the only thing we can direct it towards is something sexual.

So when these kinds of "opportunities" aren't available to us, we bury our sexual energy. Well, this is a sure way to make sure that you'll never get these opportunities (aka, getting it on)!

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Now, like many other kinds of energy, sexual energy can be controlled through deliberate practice, and the most important thing to begin with is your body language.

Pick out a few people who already have strong sexual energy and pay attention to the way that they walk, the way that they talk, dress, the way they open a door, the they way they shake hands or say hello.

Some great examples to start with are actors (or actresses) and rock stars/pop musicians. Why these people?

Because they have coaches who work with them in body language and help them to radiate sexual energy - and that's why men/women go nuts over them!

It's not their money or their fame that makes them attractive, most of the time their fame is a result of the fact that they've mastered the art of harnessing their sexual energy - and you can too!

For best results, pick three or four people to emulate and use a combination of their body language traits to develop your own personal style of sexual energy.

The great thing about this is that you can start today and make a dramatic change by this weekend.

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