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How to Attract Your Dream Relationship

Believe it or not, this is easier than it sounds...but it might require changing your current approach. Here's why...

Do You Already Know What You Want?

If you don't know what kind of a relationship you want, you'll probably end up settling for something that you don't want. Now, this might seem like a silly statement. You might already be thinking:

"But I already know what I want"

Really?

Do you know what kind of personality you need your ideal partner to have? Do you have a specific set of values which you want them to live by and help you raise your children by? Do you know what you want their attitude to be about money? About raising children? Do you know which of these standards you're flexible on and which ones are just preferences?

And most important...do you have a clear idea of what kind of a person you'll need to become in order to attract this kind of partner and to make the relationship work?

If you don't have these specific questions answered, it's probably time that you get a clear picture of what you're actually aiming at. Otherwise, you might end up finding someone you're crazy about and trying to figure out what you want out of the relationship after you're already hooked on them.

But if you know what you want, you'll have a clearer picture of what changes you need to make to attract a man or women and to make the relationship a great one.

That's where the next step comes in...

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Do You Already Have What You Want?

If you don't already have what you want in your romantic life, there can only be one reason: what you're doing isn't getting the results that you want. If you look at most people's lives, you'll find that the results they're getting are usually consistent with the methods they're using to get those results.

Yet almost everyone wants something that they don't already have, and because they're unwilling to get out of their comfort zone they usually go on wanting it... but never having it.

So if you want to attract a relationship which is more exciting and amazing than what you have right now, you have to get out of your comfort zone and learn how to use the law of attraction to it's potential.

This means going to the places where your potential mate might hang out, talking to people who you don't know, getting the areas of your life in order that might be inconsistent with the kind of relationship that you want.

The sooner you start to do this, the more attractive you and your lifestyle will be to your potential partner when you meet them.

So Where Do You Start?

Now, in case all of this sounds overwhelming, here's two things that you can do to start. Sit down right now and WRITE DOWN all of the things that you MUST have in your ideal relationship. Then write down all the things which would be nice to have but which aren't necessarily "dealbreakers."

Then, write down all the things you can do to prepare yourself for attracting this kind of person into your life. In other words, if you want someone who's physically active and interested in cultural things, start getting out and exercising more and start getting involved in some cultural events in your city.

These two steps ought to be enough to get you started...and who knows, they might be all that you need to get what you want...

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